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DeBorrah K. Ogans is a Marriage Educator, licensed Christian Counselor, Author, Life Coach, and ordained Minister. She is certified through the Sarasota Academy of Christian Counseling in Creation Therapy and holds a Master's Degree in Biblical Clinical Counseling.
She has been in a loving committed marriage for over 39 years and has five children, four (4) who are married and eighteen (18) grandchildren!
DeBorrah encourages individuals, couples, families, youth & children to persevere through life challenges and adversity by working together to develop healthier, loving, safe nurturing living environments that promote well-being.
She is Co-Founder of "Alpha 7 Ministries", a Counseling & Music ministry that reaches beyond the walls to aid you in your walk with the Lord.
DeBorrah has written extensively and has a plethora of columns that are widely published. She is the author of a pre-marital guide How Do I Love Thee: Food For Thought Before You Say I Do, and Holy Matrimony: Now That We're Married. She is also the Sacramento Marriage Advice Examiner.
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She has been in a loving committed marriage for over 39 years and has five children, four (4) who are married and eighteen (18) grandchildren!
DeBorrah encourages individuals, couples, families, youth & children to persevere through life challenges and adversity by working together to develop healthier, loving, safe nurturing living environments that promote well-being.
She is Co-Founder of "Alpha 7 Ministries", a Counseling & Music ministry that reaches beyond the walls to aid you in your walk with the Lord.
DeBorrah has written extensively and has a plethora of columns that are widely published. She is the author of a pre-marital guide How Do I Love Thee: Food For Thought Before You Say I Do, and Holy Matrimony: Now That We're Married. She is also the Sacramento Marriage Advice Examiner.
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Songs for JapanPray For & Support Japan Relief Efforts -
Yes, God is Real"The fool says in his heart there is no God." God Is Real, He exists, and HE is a rewarder of those that diligently seek HIM. -
True Beauty Comes from WithinTrue beauty comes from within. Only God can see into our hearts! It is also from the depth of the heart that a wellspring of love and truth come forth. It is here our True Beauty resides.
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PrayPrayer is the key to your relationship with the Lord? God knows your thoughts, motives, desires and intentions. He even knows why and what you are praying for before you make your request known! -
GriefGrieving is an emotionally painful process. Allowing the one that is grieving to talk freely about how they are feeling is healthy and consoling.Remember everyone is different. Just because you do not see them crying does not mean they are not grieving. -
Jealousy & Envy - a Consuming Passion Part IJealousy & enviousness is feeling bitter and unhappy because of another's advantages, possessions, or good fortune.
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How to Make "Great" Homemade Chicken SoupA "GREAT" recipe for Chicken Soup. If you are looking for a tasty and healthy quick lunch or dinner, try this one on for size! Winter or Summer, Spring or Fall,Chicken Soup is always a healthy welcomed treat for ALL! -
The Journey of LifeThis poem writen by a 15 yr. old describes the journey of life,depicting the challenges and adversity young people face today that trys to kill their aspirations. It also highlights an anchor which they can hold on to that enables them to persevere. -
The Apostle's CreedFor many the Apostle's Creed has become a ritual that is simply repeated during worship . But if you listen attentively you will hear and see that it is so much more -
Is Commitment in Marriage Important ?In this 21st century the idea of having a monogamous, faithful, committed marriage is becoming increasingly difficult. -
Marriage & Addiction - Part IAddiction is something few want to readily discuss. Addiciton inhibits intimacy in the marriage! -
Passion FruitThere is a wonderful Passion Fruit that is available all year. In order for this Fruit to flourish it must stay connected to the Vine. -
Why All the Hoopla About "VALENTINE'S DAY!"Valentine's Day is said to have originated from amongst the ancient chronicles of ancient Roman history within the early Christian Church. Not all agree -
What Does it Mean to "Love" ?Love is a term that many people use loosely. They usually base love on doing or not doing something for them. Love is not giving someone what they want. Love is not letting people run over you. Love is not telling people what they want to hear. -
Marriage: Let's Get PhysicalThe physical relationship in marriage is very important! This is a time for both emotional and physical bonding to take place. There are different levels of sharing physical intimacy. -
Can Love Last in a Marriage-Part IMany marry or have a relationship and say they love one another? For a season they may be inseparable and virtually can't keep away from one another. Initially there is much passion! But all of sudden something can happen and it all changes? -
MARRIAGES & Affairs - Part IMarriages that do not include "Transparency & Intimacy" are susceptible to infidelity. When either spouse does not learn how to become transparent they are usually deficient in the intimacy department. -
The "DOWN-LOW " Going on in the CHURCH ! ~Part I~What is the "Down-Low"? The "Down-Low" is a discreet sexual encounter between a straight married man as well as unmarried men who have sexual relationships with other men. Many are professed Christians! -
The Beauty of LaughterHow much would laughter cost if we really could bottle it up and then pour it in a glass? It really is priceless! -
The "No Phone Zone"Distracted Driving. Using a cell phone while driving is the equivalent of having 4 drinks while driving! You are driving with a decreased attention span. -
What Does God Require of Us?What is it that the Lord requires of us? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with our GOD. -
The Art of "Being Still"When a crisis arises, it is important that you seek and learn to "BE STILL". Being still does not mean that you are unconcerned or oblivious to what is going on, or simply just doing nothing. It is a state of mind that helps you remain focused.
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Marriage: HyBrid RelationshipsA rose is a rose , is a rose! But when it is a hybrid it says so! It is then considered man made! So now in this 21st century why can't we say hybrid relationships and let Christian marriage be? -
Pre-marital Advice - Food for Thought Before You Say "I Do"A mini pre-marital guide. It addresses many of the major subject areas couples should discuss prior to marriage and includes interactive exercises designed to (1) Motivate serious thought about the marriage relationship (2) Test their readiness for marriage (3) Identify areas of compatibility (4) En -
Beauty Tips for Fresh Clear SkinA simple basic beauty tip I want to share for fresh clean looking skin no matter what color or complexion you are. -
Proverbs 18 the Goldmine of ~ Spiritual Wisdom ~Prosperity or poverty does not necessarily mean someone is living right in the eyes of God. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether living in plenty or want. -
Trouble in the ChurchWhy do we have all the trouble in our places of worship today? God's principles are often laid aside -
Proverbs 13 the Goldmine of Spritual WisdomThe righteous eat to their hearts content, but the stomach of the wicked goes hungry.
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Mother DefinedMother Defined
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Always Caring for MomThere are many issues around taking care of an elderly parent or parents. Enjoy them as much as you can,treat them with respect although they become childlike, and shower them with LOVE while they are still on this side of HEAVEN!
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Depression - Spiritual ReliefA depressed person suffers from self- defeating beliefs. Depression is of a spiritual nature as well. Although the word depression is not mentioned The Bible on numerous occasions mentions hopelessness and despair. -
A Prayer to My FatherFather we thank you that you allowed your Son Jesus Christ, who lived a PERFECT sinless life, to die on the cross for us in our place! He was YOUR WORD wrapped in flesh! For this we THANK YOU!
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Creating a Cleaner Healthier Living EnvironmentRegularly maintaining a clean safe home is conducive to help create an overall healthier living environment. One need not to be paranoid or obsessive about cleanliness but practical! -
Learning to Soar Above like an EagleHow should we relate when situations, issues and crisis arise in life? Like an eagle we can "Soar" above our challenges, issues and many obstacles that are so often intentionally placed in our path! -
How Important is Discipline in Your Life ?Discipline is training that corrects, molds or perfects the mental faculties or moral character. A control gained by enforcing obedience or order. How can we accomplish this?
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The Bride (The Church)The Church is the Bride of Christ. The Church is currently experiencing premarital conflict! Jesus will return for His Church, of this we can be assured. But how close to being ready are we? Collectively as well as independently? -
Proverbs 12 the Goldmine of Spiritual WisdomAs long as we are here on earth we are here to learn. There are times when we all stand to be corrected! "Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge. But he who hates correction is stupid." Constructive criticism can helpful.
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Revelation - a Case Study of a Valid Prophecy (Part I) - 2012 ?Blessed is the one who reads the words of this prophecy, and blessed are those who hear it and take to heart what is written in it, because the time is near. -
Walking in IntegrityDo you desire to walk in integrity? Walking in integrity provides you with a sense of wholeness. It gives you an assurance to know when you are walking with the Lord your steps are ordered. Walking in integrity causes one to walk against the grain.
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Season of DepressionAn ever growing number of our population suffers from depression. Depression can be brought on by trauma, prolonged stress, high blood pressure, diabetes, chronic pain, loss of career, sexual abuse, obesity, unemployment or unresolved family dysfunction.
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Song of Solomon - Case Study in Purity & PassionI am my Lover's and my Lover is mine. Let him Kiss me with the Kisses of his mouth. For your love is more delightful than wine. Pleasing is the fragrance of your perfumes. If you want some "Sweet Somethings" to read to each other this is the place!
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God is the Giver and Sustainer of Life!God is Love. God is the giver of life. We are sanctified by His precious Holy Spirit. Camp on this thought; Before you were in your Mother's womb the Lord knew you! Life begins in heaven, our earthly transition commences in the womb. -
Proverbs 11 the Goldmine of Spiritual WisdomThe fruit of the righteous is a tree of life, and He who wins souls is wise. A wise person is compared to a tree of life! A tree attracts people who want to come in and find shelter under its branches from the shade or elements.
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Empower a Small Business EntrepreneurIf you are truly interested in making a difference in the lives of others or a giver and want to reach out and help someone it is still possible to do so. You can change someone's life through a wonderful program called Kiva! -
Proverbs 10 the Goldmine of Spiritual - Contrasting of the Godly and the WickedLife today is very complicated there are so many choices? But how do we make better choices? The world tells us; "go for it!" and "do your own thing!" The world cannot give you what God can!
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Living in His PresenceToday God still wants us to worship Him. Today He still wants us to live in His presence. He wants us to be obedient! -
Put it All in His HandsHave you ever had a situation when you did not know what to do? Have you ever had a problem that you thought was so big you did not know how it could ever be resolved? There is absolutely nothing that is too big, hard, and deep or complicated for GOD!
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What is Sin ?A skilled marksman aims for a target. Our target as believers should be fellowship with God and walking in the Light of His Word. When we walk contrary to His Word we become separated from God. Anything that separates us from God is sin. -
Marriage on the Rocks or on "The ROCK"Is your marriage on the rocks? Have you done, or did all that you think that you could do and you still are not happy? Get your relationship off the rocks and move it to "The ROCK". -
Proverbs 9 the Goldmine of Spiritual Wisdom - Enticement of Wisdom or FollyExperience is not always the best teacher! Example; "You do not have to go down to the bottom of the creek to know that there is mud in there!" We can listen and observe from what has already transpired.
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Trapped in AddictionAn addiction can be totally devastating to the addict, family, and friends. Intervention can be a catalyst for repentance. However, we tend to take the ostrich approach, burying our heads in the sand. Guess what? The problem won't just go away. -
Proverbs 8 the Goldmine of Spiritual Wisdom - the Excellence of WisdomWisdom from above always rejoices in truth! It is so preciously respected, esteemed more valuable than silver, gold or rubies!
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Spending Time with GodSpending time with Him yields patience and understanding. He has provided so many ways to continually enhance our personal relationship with Him. When you spend time with God you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free!
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Infidelity...Is It a Problem?Can a man or woman take fire into his/her bosom and not be burned? Playing with fire" is no laughing matter. If you play with fire it will burn you!
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Proverbs 7 the Goldmine of Spiritual Wisdom - Flee from the SeductressPay attention to what I say. Do not let your heart turn to her ways or stray to her paths. Many are the victims she has brought down; her slain are a mighty throng. Her house is a highway to the grave, leading down to chambers of death.
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True Repentance Results in a ChangeSincere repentance causes one to change their sinful direction. It does not mean to say you are sorry then commence to repeat or display the same previous behavior.
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Exorcism and Deliverance - Part IIIn order to pray in the Spirit and intervene when one is bound by evil spirit(s) it is ALWAYS necessary for one to be spiritually centered. Spending time with the Lord in prayer and consecration is important.
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JUDE Contending for the FaithWhen you know that there is a lot of false teaching going on what do you do?Many have been deceived. Jude, tells us that we have a duty to fight for God's truth! Be merciful to those who doubt; snatch others from the fire and save them.. -
PHILEMON Case Study of God's Grace & ForgivenessWhen God forgives us the record is wiped clean! Jesus Christ became our atonement! He purchased our freedom with His life! It is now to Him we owe our lives...
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Standing "Up" for Christian MarriageThe significance of marriage has been slowly watered down. Strange and disturbing beliefs about marriage have come to the forefront. Marriage how God designed it is becoming increasingly unpopular! We must Stand Up for Christian Marriage!
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A Few IMPORTANT Lessons I Have Learned Along the WAYHurting people exist in every walk of life no matter how much one might have or does not have! Although, you may go through some extreme situations. There is always Light at the end of a tunnel -
Getting Your Joy Back!Think about this the enemy wants to steal your Joy! He will use any and everything to do just that! He may try to take everything that you have. But trust God! Get your Joy Back! -
Proverbs 6 the Goldmine of Spiritual Wisdom - Warning Against Folly & AdulterySolomon starts out this Proverb discussing folly! Which simply means not having good sense; or being just plain foolish!
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WarFrom the DVD Live At the San Francisco Christian Center by Jus-B-Cuz. Available at CDBaby & Amazon. Learn more about Jus-B-Cuz from the widget below:
Bow Down and Worship HimOn CD Higher Ground. CD available at CDBaby & Amazon.
JoyFrom the DVD "Live In Fairfield: Joy" by The Sons of the Soul Revivers. Available at CDBaby & Amazon. Select songs from the widget below to hear more music by The Sons of the Soul Revivers.
Where Does God Dwell ?God does not dwell in a temple made by hands. There is not a place that can be built that can contain the fullness of His majestic awesomeness.
WHAT is the Work of the HOLY SPIRIT? - Part IWhat is the work of the Holy Spirit? God's Holy Spirit is available as our constant Guide. The Holy Spirit is our internal Counselor our source of spiritual understanding.
PROVERBS 5 the Goldmine of Spiritual Wisdom - the Perils of AdulteryToday in this 21st century sex outside of marriage is widely practiced and encouraged! There are many who live to seduce and entrap one into the snare of adultery! Only because of their own insecurity there is a need to cause others to stumbleThe "Nobody's Perfect" ClubThe "nobody's perfect club" allows easy access to unlimited excuses. You can live any way you want. You see we are saved by grace. That gives you a license to indulge yourself. After all "nobody's perfect."Pornography in the Christian CommunityThere is a great concern in regards to the rate pornography is growing within the Christian Community. It is happening from the pulpit to the pew. I realize this subject will not win a popularity contest. It may even cause a few jaws to drop.
Are We Ready for MarriageWe must ask ourselves are we ready for marriage? Are we prepared to relinquish our selfishness? Are we ready to give up "Me-ness" for "We-ness"?
Proverbs 4 the Goldmine of Spiritual Wisdom - Wisdom is SupremeHow does one get more wisdom? If any lacks wisdom, he should ask God. Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom. And in all your getting, get understanding.
Spiritual Strength & ConditioningDid you know that the Bible refers to life as a race? But this race is not about speed, it is about endurance! Proper spiritual conditioning is key for endurance.Paint on the CanvasOur life can be quite like an abstract painting. Especially by those who really don't know us. Each day that passes, what we say,do,and how we respond, paints an array of events on our personal canvas of life.
Prayer for Marriage RestorationTake some time and really think about where you are going in your marriage? Have you taken a detour? Pray this prayer or pray your own prayer if you are seeking restoration for your marriage!
What's Eating You?Is there something that is bothering you? Something that you can't talk about? Has someone hurt you that you can't forgive? Have someone said something to you that you can't shake loose?
Kimberly Anyadike15-year-old Kimberly Anyadike finished a historical record-breaking flight across the country, becoming what is believed to be the youngest African-American female to pilot an airplane from coast to coast.
Marriage: Developing IntimacyQuite often when one thinks of intimacy they think only on terms of being physical. Many couples have and are experiencing physical relationships without any intimacy.Marriage: Caring Enough to Listen = Communication (Part 1)Having healthy good communication is an important component within a good marriage. Don't just assume that your spouse knows something, or is happy or..... Find ways to keep your marraige interesting?
Proverbs 3 the Goldmine of Spiritual Wisdom ~ Benefits"God is Love!" Since godly wisdom comes from God,love is an integral and essential part of His wisdom! If God is love is it possible to truly love without him?
Proverbs 2 the Goldmine of SPIRITUAL WISDOM ~ Moral BenefitsWisdom is an invaluable gift from God! In Proverbs 2 we are encouraged to seek understanding above all else! To seek it as though we were looking for silver.
SEXual Problems for the ChristianSex outside of marriage is like "fire outside of the fireplace". It's dangerous! It will burn your house down.
Co-dependency Behavior DynamicsThe family system of a co-dependent usually has a powerful effect on their behavior dynamics. Often there is a scapegoat, a martyr and a hero in the co-dependent family.Spiritual Eating DisordersAn unbalanced spiritual diet will result in a spiritual eating disorder. If you go without spiritual food; you will lack the proper skills to navigate through the spiritual maze of life.
Proverbs the Goldmine of Wisdom - Warnings Against EnticementThe fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and instructions. In this age of technology we have access to much knowledge. But without the wisdom to apply that knowledge it simply means one may simply know a lot.When the Unexpected HappensAt some point in time you will experience some type of traumatic experience. A death of a loved one(s), loss of a relationship,a pet,job,stress, depression,anxiety,any other unforeseen crisis. But, this does not have to become the theme of your life.Learning to Soar Above like an EagleHow should we relate when situations, issues and crisis arise in life? Like an eagle we can "soar" above our challenges, issues, and obstacles.Exorcism and Deliverance - Part IAn exorcism is done in order to inhibit or cast away evil. In Protestant - nondenominational religions it is usually referred to as a "deliverance ministry." The Catholic Church continues to use the rite of exorcism. Both are "fervent prayer" rituals!Why Do Bad Things Happen to Good People?Why are things not fair? And why does God not do something? What makes anyone think that life is fair? Life is not fair, but God is!
Man in the MiddleThe cross on the left, hung a dying sinner. The cross on the right hung a dying sinner too. But the cross in the middle, hung dear Jesus. The cross in the middle, hung the ransom for my soul. The thief on the left, sure needed a Savior. The thief on the right, sure needed a Savior too. B
Sextexting & TeensSextexting is becoming a growing trend among teens. Sextexting is when revealing photos or messages are sent across a cell phone. It is actually flirting with danger.
How to Overcome Eating DisordersAnorexia and bulimia are serious compulsive eating disorders that are life threatening. These compulsive behaviors if not properly attended can result in death.Filter Content by Category
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