Carisa Silvesan
A native of Washington State, Carisa Silvesan is wife, mother of 6 (4 boys and 2 girls), writer, designer, and entrepreneur! Now residing in San Antonio, TX, she loves the sun and everything Texas has to offer!
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Seattle Vocational Institute A+ Networking Certificate; AAS Medical Transcription Kaplan University OnlineMotto
Do everything for God and He'll take care of the rest!Affiliations
National Collegiate Honor Society, San Antonio Coalition For Life, Community Bible Church
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The True Meaning of ChristmasWith so much business during this time of year, it is so important to stop and reflect on the true meaning behind the holiday and each and every tradition!
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The New "Declaration of Independece"?The first Declaration of Independence was a document that showed Britain that the USA was solid in its separation from that country. What does this "new" declaration say?
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To Protest or Not to ProtestAre all the Occupy protests really doing any good?
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Financially Healthy MealsSaving money can be tough. Creating healthy meals that don't break your bank can be even tougher. Here are some ideas to help you stay on track!
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Social Security for "Baby-Man"?One 30-year-old man has decided he needs to actually live like an infant in order to feel secure. The best part? YOU are paying for it!
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Does Communism Demoralize Countries?After a toddler is hit twice by a two vans, left to die, and then ignored by over 15 people, the question is now posed whether or not Communism (specifically the Nanjing judge) is to blame for people's behavior.
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The Greed of America?After a few days of research, it should be easy for any sane, logical thinking person to see that there is no real focal point of this "stinking" movement.
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Taking it to ExtremesShould people be outraged by this man's firing, or was the company within their rights to take away his job?
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There is Freedom... UntilEveryone keeps stating how free our country is (which is what brings people here in the first place). But, how free are we really?
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Who is Herman Cain?For those who have not heard, Herman Cain is breaking up what would have been the typical Republican/Conservative party war between Romney and Perry. Faithful and vigilant, this guy says what he means and means what he says.
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State Versus GovernmentIsn't it time to put the bickering aside and work toward a goal that keeps U.S. citizens safe and stops the modern slave wages put upon illegal immigrants?
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Religious IntoleranceFor those in the United States who feel their freedom of religion is being imposed upon, read this article and then rethink your thoughts!
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Lessons from Baby JosephAfter hearing of the sad death of baby Joseph from Canda on my iPhone Fox News App this morning, I decided that there is more to his life than the doom and gloom of dying from a terminal illness.
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2011 GOP Presidential DebateThis article goes through the best answers, who asked the, who answered, and if they were worthy of a future President.
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What 9/11 Means to MeSeptember 11th, 2001 affected each of us differently. This is my personal experience, opinion, feeling, and take on those horrific events.
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WaterWater is the only element on earth that sustains life, yet takes it away at the same time. It can heal or it can drown.
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San Antonio Labor Day Events and ActivitiesBecause of a massive heat wave this year, Labor Day may take many people north to cooler ground, or keep them indoors watching movies. Whether or not you like the heat, there is plenty to do in San Antonio for Labor Day weekend.
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Babylon Gods and GoddessesBabylon possessed pagan rituals, celebrating and worshiping multiple deities. The highest gods and goddesses are discussed in this article and a basic idea as to how they were worshipped and cared for.
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Savior's Key, Hell's BoxOnly through a Savior can one hope to gain freedom from their own locked box. -
A Sacred FeelingThe urgency of all human beings is sometimes too strong to tame.
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I SitWe can puff ourselves up with pride, but when nature is truly seen it is clear we are nothing more than the tiny creatures residing therein. -
Government Intervention for Obesity Rates Among the Poorest AmericansWhen you consider that among the poorest families in our country about 30% of them experience obesity in their families, perhaps it is related to the SNAP program. It's time to change the program to provide real nutrition and give tax payers peace of mind
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My favorite Olympic memory: The day Mary Lou got the goldFor most young girls ice skating is the thing to watch during the winter Olympics, but for the summer it is the United States gymnastics team. And this was no different for me in the summer of 1984.Also published on:
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HeatThe one word everyone can associate with summer! -
How to Have a Christmas with Little to NothingWith so many people without this year, I thought it appropriate to put some ideas out there that could make Christmas joyful, even without the avalance of material goods. -
Freedom of Religion or Court Decision?When a religious organization decides that modern medicine is not allowed, should the government have the right to make decisions for minors or should parents have the right to commit subliminal euthanasia?
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Tips for Retrieving Deleted DataSometimes we delete data we don't mean to and other times we want something back that before we could care less about. You don't have to be a professional to take the following steps in trying to retrieve previously deleted data!
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San Antonio Memorial Day Weekend EventsWhether you're visiting or are just looking for a few new things in your part of San Antonio, this guide should help you find something to do this Memorial Day weekend. -
Father's Day Greeting Card MessagesSometimes we can find it difficult to find the words to express just how much our fathers mean to us. Read on for some great tips and phrases to make your own unique father's day card! -
Tea Parties and GovernmentWith thousands and thousands of people protesting too many taxes, big government and extreme spending - how is the current administration handling these people?
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Is Obama Giving Our Country Away?Why are we allowing our President to childishly take our problems overseas and who is really to blame for our economic crisis in the first place? -
President Obama on Jay LenoWhat message are we receiving and what is the truth behind them? -
Baby Strollers: Which One is Right for You?In today's world of having things easy and wonderful technological advances in everything from baby bottles to cell phones, there is so much to choose from. Take a minute to read over how to choose the right stroller for you and your bundle of joy! -
Sarah Palin's RNC SpeechWhy should we be ecstatic to have Palin on the VP list.
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How to Have a Cheap Summer VacationGas prices killing your budget for summer fun? Try out some of these tips to create a budget that will still allow you to have some vacation for you and the family.
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Potty Training Charts Catered to Your ChildKids won't respond to white paper with lines very well. So create a chart that suits them and their potty training needs!
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Will and Should Israel Attack Iran?With a mad man in Iran and Israel in such close proximity of his nuclear threshold and threats aimed directly at Israel, what else should Mofaz have said?
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Pregnancy Facts Every Woman Should KnowIf you're pregnant or trying to get pregnant, here is some vital information about the basic facts of pregnancy at each trimester.
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Potty Training Boys: Know What to Try If Other Things FailPotty training boys is no easy feat. They have ways to frustrate you, but you have to be bigger person, that you are, and find ways to be patient and creative!
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Preview: American Idol Season 7 FinaleWith two different but equally matched talents going head to head, who will be the next American Idol?
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American Idol - Final ThreeWith the three gurus of singing left in this competition, what will happen tonight after last night's performances: the good, the bad and the ugly?
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David ArchuletaThis was absolutely hands down the best performance to ever come from Archuleta throughout the entire American Idol competition!
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Jason CastroFinally Jason proves the point I've been making for weeks now: he does not belong in this competition. Are the voters smart enough to finally send him home?
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Syesha MercadoWith amazing vocals, Syesha continues to come out of her shell little by little and may possibly be a threat to the head honcho next week.
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David CookWith just alright performances tonight has Cook lost his place as the ultimate winner of the American Idol competition?
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Qutting SmokingFor those who dont' have the money to buy the gum, the patch, the inhaler and more, this article is for you.
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Brooke White's Performance on American Idol 4/29/2008With the first half of tonight a let down and the second half full of hope - what will happen to Brooke tomorrow night?
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Jason Castro's Performance on American IdolSame old blah performance. When is this guy gonna go?
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A Course in MiraclesWith more and more people turning to folks like Marianne Williamson, Eckhart Tolle and, above all, Oprah Winfrey to supplement their Christian teaching and study, just how safe is the Course In Miracles spiritually?
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Syesha Mercado's Neil Diamond Performance on American IdolWith every week Syesha proves to America why she deserves to stay in the competition.
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David Archuleta's Sweet Caroline, America Not Amazing on American IdolArchuleta will not leave this week, but what lies ahead for him could attack and tip him off the edge.
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David Cook's Neil Diamond Performance on American IdolEven when he's not that good, Cook still blows the competition away.
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10 Williams-Sonoma that Cost less than $100 and Make Mother's Day GiftsWhether you shop online, through the store catalog or at an actual store location, the store has 10 Mother's Day gifts you'll love, each of which costs less than $75. -
Miley Cyrus and Her Vanity Fair PhotosWith a she said they said battle ensuing, what should parents say and do for their children to understand what is going on with their favorite star?
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David Cook Atop American Idol Top 5 RankingsWith the competition getting fierce and coming close to the finale, its time for America to get super tough and picky with who they choose to go home and those who should continue to compete.
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Creating a Mother's Day Scrapbook for a First-Time MomFor new mothers, Mother's Day is a brand-new experience they may not have even thought of celebrating or believed they never would celebrate.
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How to Throw a Meaningful Mother's Day Party to Honor MomAnyone can buy a cake and presents. But, if you follow these guidelines and use your own creativity, you're sure to throw your mom a Mother's Day party that will always be remembered.
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Ten Special Bible Verses for Mother's DayNot sure how to express how you feel about your ever faithful mother? Try one of these special ten Bible verses to say exactly how you feel. -
Carly Smithson Leaves American IdolCarly Smithson is one of the top talented performers on American Idol. Her performance on Tuesday nigth was absolutely perfect. So why did she get voted off?
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American Idol: Top Six ResultsThis ranking is only dependent on last night's performance -
American IdolWith half of the top twelve contestants dismissed by American voters, who will keep the fire alive and who will be leaving. Watch tonight to find out.
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Eugenics: Making a ComebackWith Minnesota already illegally claiming stake to over 40,000 people's DNA, is the nation next?
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Sex Changes for ChildrenWith a new program geared towards treating what Boston's Children's Hospital calls transgender in children and even infants, is it necessary and beneficial to the patient?
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Pregnant Man on Oprah?Will a man every be pregnant or are we kidding ourselves with this "pregnant man appearance?" -
Abortion as Art: What Have We Become?While the legalities are extremely gray, the moral and ethical questions have a definite answer of WRONG.
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Democratic Debate on ABCBlah, blah and more blah as dumb and dumber go at it on ABC. -
Aliza ShvartsHow has her present art "project" affected people and why is she doing it?
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Review: Syesha Mercado's Performance of Vanishing on American IdolWith blah, copy cat performances before, will Syesha ever come back?
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Carly Smithson's Poor Performance on Can't Live Should Land Her in Bottom ThreeCarly! What have you done? "Can't Live" is such a great song and she should have knocked us off our feet and the couch jumping for joy at what she accomplished.
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Brooke White's Turns in Weak Performance on American IdolWhile she has been consistent all through out the competition, tonight was a hard hit moment for Brooke White.
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Jason Castro's Performance on American IdolPlease end the suffereing!
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Kristy Lee Cook's Performance on American IdolIs she going up or dropping down even further?
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David Archuleta's Performance on American IdolMaybe not the best, but good enough to stay?
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David Cook's Performance on American IdolThere is nothing to say about this guy except that he ROCKS!
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Kids Gone Wild! Are Our Children Out of Control?With more and more children showing up on the news having committed crimes that seem more like adult than child-like in nature, what is happening to this generation of children and why? -
Michael Johns Voted Off American IdolWith the loss of Michael Johns last night, the question is, did the voters get it right?
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Michael John's Performance on American IdolWith a good performance tonight, will that be enough for Michael to remain in the show for another week?
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Pitchy Performance, Attitude Holding Syesha Mercado BackFake. Attitude and blah, blah, blah. We've heard her before in other singers. Time for this one to go.
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Carly Smithson Should Land in Final 2 on American IdolMaybe not choosing the right song, Carly still hit a great performance and deserved more praise than she received.
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On Piano, Singing Angels, David Archuleta DazzlesThis is a kid who will have a wonderful career in inspirational singing - get his performances on the TV for free while it lasts!
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Brooke White Stays in Middle of the Pack on American IdolWill she remain in the lower three tomorrow night or work her way up the ladder?
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Jason Castro's Performance on American Idol 4/8/2008With not much to say I leave you with ...
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Top 8 Rankings for Remaining American Idol ContestantsWith the show almost half way done who should stay and who should go home. After watching every episode this season the rank is in - well, my rank at least. Let me know if you agree.
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Church of Oprah CorrectedIf the first two articles made no sense because of the technical mistakes by the publisher, this article has the corrections needed to fully understand what was being said.
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Tolle and AbortionIf your pain can be passed on to your child would you be more or less likely to have an aboriton?
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Oprah's "Mission"People are living church and Christ. For what? Is this the way to a better life for humanity or something darker?
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Oprah's "Mission"People are leaving churches for this teaching. People are walking away from Christ for this teaching. They are being told it is a new form of Christianity, but is it really?
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Best Neighborhoods in SeattleFor those living or thinking of living in Seattle, here is a brief take on some of the best neighborhood in and around the Seattle, Washington area.
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Ramiele Malubay Voted Off American IdolWhile a very talented and beautiful young woman, this contest was too big for her but beneficial for her at the same time.
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Sexually Transmitted Diseases in TeensTeenagers are given lots of power over their parents these days. Unfortunately the power to get birth control so that they can have sex is one of them. This article discusses the payoff of that power.
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Abortion Doulas: What Are They?Like doulas for having a child, we now have doula's for aborting a child.
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Home Schoolers Grade Our Public School SystemWhy do people home school? Is public school really THAT bad where parents feel they have no alternative except to home school?
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Dina Matos and Silda Spitzer and Standing by Their MenAlthough their husbands have dealt each of these women a hard blow to their marriage, they have stuck by their vows, showing love and support to their husbands - for better and for worse.
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California Residents Stuck with the Bill?After suckling millions out of the California government, Planned Parenthood has a lawsuit for commiting fraud against the state of California.
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California Liberals on the Attack with Parents Who Home SchoolShould parents who home school their children be required to hold a valid state teaching credential in order to instruct their child at home? Some California attorneys believe they should. Why they're wrong and more in the following article.
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Most Comfortable Maternity ShoesWhen you're pregnant and have a big belly, the last thing you want to do is bend over. Read this article to find out why slip-on shoes are the way to go during those nine months, and various places you can find comfort, style and good prices!
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Genetic Testing and AbortionOne of the reasons women give for aborting their child is due to the answers they receive from genetic testing. But, should the test results be the deciding factor?
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Mideast Teddy FiascoJust how controlling would you like terrorists to be before you finally say: Get them out of our hair?
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How to Get Your Vehicle Registered in San AntonioMoving to SA? Here's the steps you'll need to take in order to get those Texas plates.
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40 Days for LifeWith so many lives saved and outreach actually reaching the people who need it, will the 40 Days For Life campaign end everywhere and what is Planned Parenthood worried about now?
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Southern California Wildfires Testing ResolveWith over 10 wildfires burning tonight, how are people being affected? And has there been any progress yet?
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Prayer Journaljournals are nothing new, but having one completely devoted to your relationship with God can be a wonderful thing to have, keep and read over when times get tough.
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Spiritual Motivation: How to Keep Going when the Going Gets ToughEven as Christians, we have times when trouble comes along and we can't see any light at the end of the tunnel. But, this is the time we need to go to Christ and ask for His help and guidance.
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BellaThis movie is family friendly and very touching. It is highly recommended and coming soon to select theaters across the country October 26th.
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Effects of the Staph 'Superbug' in San AntonioMRSA, or the staph "superbug" as the media has been referring to it lately, is here in San Antonio. Read on to learn what we know about how the infection begins, what it looks like and more.
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'40 Days for Life' Pro Life Event More Than Halfway ThroughWhat effect has the 40 Days For Life campaign had on the volunteers, the people they reach out to and Planned Parenthood?
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Why I Should Not Have Voted for Bush the Second Time AroundWhile I love what the President did in his first term, the second time around is not a pleasant thing to watch.
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Altercation at Planned Parenthood in San AntonioHaving security present wasn't enough for Planned Parenthood as one of their volunteers violated a 40 Days For Life volunteer's freedom of speech.
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Planned Parenthood Fights Back in San AntonioPlanned Parenthood has now labeled all members of the 40 Days For Life as extremists, but are they the proverbial pot calling the kettle black or are they exaggerating and have some explaining to do themselves?
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First 7 Days of the "40 Days for Life" Pro Life Rally in San AntonioThrough opposition, bad weather and more, these people stand strong and continue to pray to end abortion.
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The Significance of Columbus DayColumbus has been the man who "founded" America for quite some time. But, as mosted educated people know, it is more myth than fact.
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San Antonio Halloween Events for EveryoneWhether you go trick or treating or prefer a fall festival, San Antonio has everything you're looking for to enjoy the Halloween season.
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What to Expect at the 9 Month Old Check UpBy now your should know the routine, but here are some things to look for before the 9 month old check up.
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40 Days for Life Pro Life Rally in San AntonioWith a higher turn out than expected, the San Antonio 40 Days For Life had a great kick off rally for a great start!
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Moving Across Country: Done Easy and CheapIf you've never had to move a long distance before, this is a MUST READ!! There are so many ways to save money that looking this over could put a damper on your wallet.
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What to Expect at Your Baby's Six Month Check UpBy now you have the routine down at the doctor's office, but here is what to be prepared for before you go in for the 6 month check up.
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40 Days for Life in San Antonio, TexasIf you are pro life, here is your chance to experience and be part of an event that is peaceful and loving and still makes a statement through public witness that God loves these women and they do not need to fear the child they are carrying.
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What to Expect at Your Baby's Two Month Doctor's VisitFor a first time mother the first year of doctor's appointments can be a little nerve racking. This is a general guide as to what to expect and how to prepare for the 2 month old check up.
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What to Expect at Your Baby's Four Month Old Doctor's VisitDoctor's appointments can be chaotic. But, these tips can help you be prepared and make the whole process much smoother.
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Fall TV Show: Pushing DaisiesAfter watching all the previews abc.com had to offer and reading up on the story of the show, I'm ready to give a review of the preview.
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Autumn Craft Project: Pressed Leaves for FallWeather getting you down? Bored with Fall on the way? Try this project that is simple, cheap, quick and fun!
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How to Make Wrapping PaperWhile you can use this idea for anytime of the year, Christmas is when we're wrapping the most. Make it more enjoyable knowing you're wrapping with style that is unique from anyone elses!
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Unique Christmas Gift: Flower PotMany may think that flower pots have just one use, but for the Christmas season, if you do it right, they can be the perfect, unique Christmas gift!
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How to Take Your Own PicturesStop overpaying for one pose photos. Invest in some supplies and make your photos unique and special - and maybe even get paid for them!
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Sex Selective AbortionThe popular view of sex selective abortion is that it is centered in China. But, does it happen elsewhere and is it contributing to a downward spiral of devaluing human life?
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I Have Found JesusWe hear celebrities over and over say they have found Jesus or God is giving them another shot. But, are they sincere or just playing to the press?
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How to Make Your Own Christmas CardsStop spending money on overpriced generalized Christmas cards and suprise everyone this year with unique, original ones you make yourself!
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Sexual Education: Is it Needed in Our Schools?Is sexual education needed in our school system today?
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Pro Lifers: When Will We Learn?Pro life members are fighting to the unborn lives in this world. But, are we missing a key element in our fight for life?
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How to Create a Memory BoxLosing a child while pregnant is extremely painful and hard to grieve over. It can feel unreal, but needs to be remembered. Here are some ideas in making a memory box that can help you cope and remember your child forever.
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Christian Rock Review: Invisible FireworksInvisible Fireworks creates a new genre with their second album. Full of poetry set to music it is uplifting and truthful about having a relationship with God.
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Plan B: Has it Lived Up to the Promise?Plan B was introduced as an emergency contraceptive that would help prevent abortion: bring down the abortion rates. Has it done that? How is the effects of taking this described and are those descriptions truthful?
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A Father's Rights: Men Aborting Vs Women AbortingIf it takes two to create the child, shouldn't men have equal rights when it comes to a woman who wants to abort his child, yet he wants to keep his child?
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The Fight for LifeThings are happening and recently too. The Pro Life movement has the motivation, proof and post abortive women and families all helping to fight abortion and bring the industry to its knees.
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Cheap Trip to Long Beach, WashingtonTake a summer trip aware from the ordinary: Long Beach, Washington will take you back to similar times and offers enough to do to keep you busy for a few weeks.
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Cheap Trips to WashingtonA grand cheap camping trip that the whole family can enjoy and mom and dad can afford!
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Cheap Trips to WashingtonIf you're ever in the Washington are, about to head south, take the time to visit the most active volcano in the United States. It is worth your time and money.
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Cheap Parties: First Birthday Tips and TricksWhen it comes to the first birthday, you don't need a platinum card to make it special. Just read these tips and tricks to pull it off as something memorable that you won't be paying off during their second year of life.
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Dodd, Dennis, Biden, Richardson and Gravel Ignored in CNN/YouTube DebateWhy weren't these guys given more spotlight time? Would the polls be different today if they were?
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Obama's Performance at the You Tube/CNN Democratic DebateIs Obama the best Democratic Nominee? What does he possess that Hillary doesn't?
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Hillary Clinton's Performance at the You Tube/CNN Democratic DebateDid Hillary shine or fumble? Is she in danger of losing the election as the Democratic nominee?
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Back to School: What to Expect from First GradeAfter some lazy days in Kindergarten and surviving a summer, it's time to get your six year old ready for first grade. Here's some tips on how to do it and not break your bank or their hearts.
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A Republican's Perspective on the YouTube/CNN Democratic DebateI watched and learned more about why I am not a Democrat.
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Trafficking Unborn Lives in AmericaWe know that abortion clinics provide multitudes of dead unborn human bodies to research facilities everywhere, but how much money does this industry bring in?
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The Sensitive NationAre overly sensitive people destroying the rights of others?
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Old Navy Has New Style and DurabilityLow on finances, but high on family to shop for? Try this out for size: A store that offers great prices and durable, long lasting clothing.
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Modern Adoption Industry: Why is the Abortion Industry Not Promoting it More?When it comes to choice, we talk mostly about the right to have an abortion. But, what about the other choices:parenting and ... adoption? Is it advocated as much as abortion does when it comes to abortion facilities, such as Planned Parenthood?
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The Fetal Pain Issue and Abortion RightsPro choices argue that abortion up to half way through the pregnancy is okay because the fetus feels no pain. But is that completely true? Are we stating this as fact? Or are we just guessing?
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Sexual Education: Does it Cover all the Bases?People have differing views on sexual education and what needs to be included and where it should be taught. This article is based off of one of three surveys I conducted in the open internet world with 50 respondents and 42 of those who were taught sex ed.
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Illegal Immigration: Is it Destroying Our Country?Every year more and more people come into this country, knowingly and purposefully breaking the law. How is their presence affecting us as a people and as a nation? What should and is being done to solve the flood?
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Stem Cell Research: Are We Playing God?Looking into all different aspects of the debate and the science, it's time to really understand the true potentials and pitfalls of what could happen.
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Developing Human Life: The Question of PeronhoodTo keep abortion legal, some will argue that viability is the key factor in determining personhood, which in turn would define when a life is allowed to be interrupted and taken.
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Keep a Kid-Filled House CleanTips and tricks to keeping a family home with multiple children cleaner than usual.
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Parental Rights: Are They Disappearing?In the US parents are responsible for their children. You may think you may have to sign off on everything they do, but you may be wrong.
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Abortion Stories: From the Horses MouthReal women with real experience with abortion.
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Eastside 4th of July MemoriesFor anyone in Bellevue who doesn't want to venture out to the big city of Seattle, here's a family friendly, safe alternative with just as much bang as the Space Needle.
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I Am Herethe life of one
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How to Plan a Great Bridal Shower on a BudgetMaids and matrons of honor! May I have your attention please? You've already spent a fortune on your dress, so why not try to save a little on the bridal shower? Afterall, you have bills to pay and you need to eat too, right?
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Tips for Planning Your Special Day: Wedding IdeasWeddings are hard to plan and I'm sure if you're getting married you already have a how-to wedding book. So, here's just some tips and pointers for starting off on the right foot and learning what it is you're getting yourself into.
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Where is God?Why people can't find God?
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Disneyland in California: The Happiest Place on EarthFor anyone with kids who wants to create an unforgettable vacation. The good, the bad, and the tips and tricks to make it more affordable and fun for everyone.
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Blame TVFor those of you who still think TV programming is to blame for your problems and others.
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Sex, Drugs and ParentsThis article is a response to the reports of parents buying the alcohol and handing out the condoms and providing the weed for their teenagers. I personally know of parents who attend parties with their teenagers and it is ruining their kid's lives.








